In order to learn how to shape our hands to the shape of another person's body, we need to loosen the tensions that we habitually hold not only in our hands, arms and shoulders but also in our trunk and legs. We explore the body as an open channel between the ground and the body of the other. We find support and space in our own body in order to be able to transmit this sensation to the other person and to accompany them in the motions of their breathing without altering ours. The gravitational force adds on to ours. When all this gets transmitted through our hands, the person feels safe, supported by a greater force. There is space to be as one is and to feel as one feels. We do not impose any model that one would need to resist or strive to adopt. The person can relax.